try

to be a better listener
to let others speak without interjecting
to love more openly
to be a better friend
to compliment people more
to harden myself to accidental insults
to rely on myself more
to talk less about myself and my feelings
to make them laugh more
to not be a downer
to not compare
to be more positive
to act like a girlfriend even if it feels weird
to not let my feelings get hurt by stupid things