if you have to put yourself into a certain mind set,
you're just trying to convince yourself of something you already know isn't true.
i need to be in the mindset he feels the same!
BUT IN REALITY, YOU ALREADY KNOW HE DOESN'T.
A MINDSET IS A MIND CUSHION, IT ATTEMPTS TO LESSEN THE HURT.
BUT IT DOESN'T WORK.
SO INSTEAD OF PUTTING OURSELVES IN MINDSETS, LETS STICK TO HOW OUR MIND IS ALREADY SET.